Friday, May 31, 2013
This post will be short because I am so weary and so very tired. Problems have already started with my step-daughter and her new baby. The things that are going on are worse that we had ever anticipated. We are not sleeping. My husband is having chest pains and I am having heart palpitations. My stomach is in knots. Child Protective Services is involved but that is just the beginning of the problems. As I said in my last post, I can't even begin to write it all down. And what can me and my husband do? Nothing. We can't do a thing.
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I am so sorry. Look after yourself and your husband. You are important. Sending many, many caring wishes your way...
ReplyDeleteOh you poor darlings, what a terrible set of events happening, when it should all have been just about loving the new born.!. Thank god she arrived safe and sound, and looks a little beauty.. I feel for you and your husband, for the helplessness you are feeling in the face of the situation. It will resolve itself in its own time. You will have an empty void if baby is taken away for safety reasons, but hopefully they could look kindly on you being her backup and leave baby with you all... what ever happens, that little girl deserves the best she can get and if that means with another family, you will have to wipe your eyes and hope all will be well.. this in no way makes it easy, but we all have our own roads, and your stepdaughter has chosen hers, and because of that your little one is having a road chosen for her. I am sending you lots and lots of love and hugs and hope that it will calm down and be worked out.. your mum might be away from you now, be sure she is there in spirit... when you love your kids as much as she did, she will never be far away.. Thinking of you all, janzi
ReplyDeleteDear Birdie. I am thinking about you and your family and hoping that it all gets sorted out for the best. x
ReplyDeleteBirdie, I am so sorry, all I can say is just...take a step back and try to breathe. I know that this is painful to you and your husband but this is not your battle to fight. It was a difficult situation from the start and you have done everything you can. Do NOT let it affect your health or your marriage. Sending much love and prayers your way...
ReplyDeleteOh no, I'm not quite sure what's going on, but it doesn't sound good. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Look after yourselves!
ReplyDeleteI have nothing wise to say. I'm nearly 50 soon and I still feel as if I know nothing. I think some people are born wise, not me.
ReplyDeleteLike others have said before me, if I were you I'd take care of myself, my husband and my kids at home first.
So sorry.
I am hoping that everything is sorted out soon.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. Hoping it all turns out for the best. XO~
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking of you too, Birdie. I am hoping for the best.
ReplyDeleteA rough start for an innocent little soul. What a terrible way to begin life's journey. How sad. I hope it sorts itself out for all of you, but particularly for that little one.
ReplyDeleteDearest Birdie, I am praying for things to get better for all of you. Take care of your husband and yourself first. Things will get better soon, I'm praying it does.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry. That must be frustrating as hell. Sending good thoughts to you.
ReplyDeleteOh Birdie, life is such a mess sometimes. Your one True North must be what seems to offer the best outcome for the baby.
ReplyDeleteIt's lousy. You really get more than your fair share of disasters. All I can say is take care. We're here for you.
ReplyDeleteI have nothing useful to say - just that I am so sorry to hear about such a rough start for all of you. Keep yourselves healthy if you can - otherwise you definitely won't have the strength to get through this. Hugs.
ReplyDeletePlease take care of yourself and your husband, and know that lots of us are here for you... sending prayers and good thoughts. xoxox
ReplyDeleteO Birdie, I am so sorry you are going through this challenging time. Do try to rest, and hold on to peace and hope -- please know you are all in my prayers *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you're going through tough times. You and yours are in my best thoughts.
ReplyDeleteLove each other. Love each other. Love each other.
ReplyDeleteIt's better if Child Protective Services are there than if they are NOT there. At least the child has a chance then.
Breathe. The Universe will do what it does. Hang tight, miss.
HUGS...Hugs and more hugs!!!
ReplyDeleteOh Barb...
ReplyDeleteI have no words for you...
Except...
Take care of yourself, your kids and your husband...
Please keep us posted...
We all love you out here...
Honestly..
Linda :o)